Why is it so hard to let people go?
Why is it difficult to leave everything and concentrate on present? Somewhere I read that, “Be with people who make you feel best about yourself and always come with positivity”.
But, what if the same people bring sadness in your life?
What if your actions are responsible for their behaviour?
Strange! Isn’t it?
We do thousands of mistakes in life. Some affect us, some effect people surrounding us. Consequences of some mistakes extends to such level where, they change us as well as people around us. Accepting those mistakes, apologizing for those mistakes is one good thing we can do but facing the consequences is the whole another thing. In this whole facing scenario we might start feeling worse about ourselves and end up hating too. But the fact of mistakes will never change. Things become very hard when we see people moving on with their lives when we sit there at the same place revolving around our own mistakes. It is hard to be alone, suddenly, after being surrounded by many people.
Everyone needs time to get over their mistakes. We might overcome those mistakes but the world will never. There might be comments for everything we do based on the mistakes in the past. And then there is this feeling, no matter what, the past is never going to stop haunting. We might not think about our mistakes for some time or even forever but this world will never stop criticizing us.
So what should we do?
Is it possible to stop making mistakes? No, mistakes are significant part of life. It depends on us if we want to accept the mistake and move on with or just to hang in there with regrets. Here is the twist and well known fact, “It all depends on us whether we want to take those situations as a source of strength or guilt.”
No matter what we do, there will be someone person who would be hurt. But we can’t keep on thinking about them, can we? Few might understand and some not but what important is living your dreams, following your heart, forgiving yourself and loving yourself. The bravery of a person lies in accepting mistakes, learning from them and to let them go. Stand for your happiness by being less selfish because everyone deserves the best! This way the world would be able to come out jealousy, anger and all the agony that keeps humankind away from the real and the purest purpose of life.